What is it with people these days ? Everyone who enters our lives has a reason, and it’s not a good one all the time . Manipulative, discerning, unethical , and with no fear of God these people continue to disturb peace in others do they sleep at night ?

We can forgive & forget..but we don’t want the other person to forget that we forgave.

Getting on with Vendetta is easy…hit the gym…pamper yourself at the salon..paint your talons and look so absolutely gorgeous, that the one lowlife really feels bad that they have lost out on a true friend like you. Being a good person makes you beautiful inside and out .

All in all, keep your confidence up, as that raises you to an unbeatable advantage. Do not ever stoop to a level like them and bitch or gossip, it won’t make you feel any better…raise yourself above them.

‘When you earn your bread well ,there are a lot of them lining up to butter it’….be aware and stay clear .

In the end it’s not about you and them , but it’s about you and God.

True friends will stand by you thru thick and thin, and are always there for you to lean on, in good times and bad. They know your good side and your bad side , and still love you anyways …keep them safe and close to your heart…because this breed of nice ones are slowly going extinct.

Stay blessed and stay true to yourself, and the ones that matter most.



Getting the look right is all about simplicity and details. I never go wrong with black, as it’s an instant boost into classy mode for a Saturday night out.
This dress has intricate lace trimmings on the hem and shoulders, adding just the right amount of feminine needed to go from regular LBD ( little black dress ) to classic.

I’ve teamed this with a white and black Chanel clutch and a white TAG HEUER watch to set this classic contrast.

Hair is tied into a slick ponytail to enhance my height.
Minimalistic jewellery in solitaire earrings and a diamond tennis bracelet ….and you’re set to turn heads.




The feeling you get when you’re tying your hair in front of a mirror and you love the way your arms look….it certainly is pay back for all that sweat and hardwork at the gym.
As we women age, the concern is more focused on toning rather than building. The inner arm give away your age as fast as your neck and ladies ,even though biceps and  triceps seem like a man’s workout …lift them & curl them, 10 pounds without intimidation.
Size zero is totally not my number.

Keep your curves ladies , the 8 shape is the best . Good chest -thin waist- curvy hips will never go out of style…if you ever doubt this ….just ask the MEN !!

HAIR straight vs curls


How do we wear our style and when? Straight vs curls….is the question.
Do we plan our hairstyle first and then the outfit or the other way around…to me it really doesn’t matter because I’m a last minute dresser..on the other hand hair takes more time ..
So it all depends on each one of us ..personally you have to be comfortable with what you it your hair or clothes and off course party location ..
I’ve learnt thru experience having my straight hair stick to my lip gloss at a recent poolside sundowner. ..uffff…it’s was so irritating.
At a house party and curls for the evening…I was shocked to see how much cat fur stuck on to my hair…(8 cats on the sofa).I guess if it was straight it would have smoothly slipped away..this venue definitely has my hair in a bun the next time
Any party that’s situated at a breezy location should have your hair in a neat ponytail.
Indoors ,for a red carpet with a cocktail dress curls are my choice …it’s just adds that 60’s touch that I love so much…sweaty clubbing and  dancing I’d go for straight .
In the end , it’s just got to be comfortable personally for each of us to handle.

Most important, with any hairstyle, is to wear the right attitude and you’ve got a winner!



No one does it better than MAI SALON bandra Mumbai. The new Auburn and coffee colour blends so well with an olive complexion. 

Keeping your hair colour in mind to suit your wardrobe, at this salon they know your dressing style and give superb advise on the choice of hair tones.

Feeling new and refreshed.20160413_172635



Birthday look was classic…wore a beautiful antique pink satin corset with white high waisted jeans..accessorised with Gucci handbag and off course nothing makes me feel better than wearing an exquisite diamond neck piece .
Hair typically lightly curled and back comed for volume .
‘I was my own star that night….series regular is not in my lifes contract ‘



“This is my trophy
My gymming persist
Sweat, pain and commitment
Achieved…to get this”

Everything about fitness is a certain goal towards looking great, feeling buff, and most of all looking young .I wanted to share with all of you my secret of staying this way at my age . At the age of 17 …midway thru college I was approached by a man on the road insisting I should model…off course at that age u avoid all chatter with strange men..this guy just did not give up…for a few days he kept crossing my path and finally handed me his card…turned out to be one of the best photographers in the modelling career started there( off course with mom in tow for all my shoots).

This sudden catapult  into a glamour world was too exciting for me …a teen with a dream to be on the top.

That’s when I made a commitment to my body and mind that I’d dedicate my determination towards staying fit…all that at 17 …now I’m in my 40’s..mother of a 17 year old teenager…and damn glad at how I look .( don’t forget the sunscreen indoors and outdoors…lol)

It’s not only body …but mind too ..when it comes to positivity. Keep your head up towards the sunshine and the shadows will fall behind you.

Believe in yourself
Focus on your goals.
Love the body you live in
Remember fit is the eternal SEXY !!


Got coloured in the most vibrant hues till I couldn’t get recognised, made me think about how nearly everyone  hides behind a facade and greets the world with their different face ? Are we who we are? The air kisses …the ‘how r you’  without even waiting for the reply…where is the genuinity of life gone? Really where is the concern, the real peeps and the ones who care?
Well….I realised that if u can’t find the good ones…then be them…trust me it’s easy : )